“Could I have some salt, please?”
It sounds like one of the easiest phrases to learn in Chinese. Yet many foreigners living in China are surprised when they ask for salt in a restaurant and are met with confused looks—even if their Chinese is perfectly understandable.
The reason isn’t the language. It’s the culture.
In China, food is traditionally seasoned during cooking, and adding salt or pepper afterward is much less common than in many Western countries. Understanding this small cultural nuance can make everyday interactions much smoother.
This is just one example of the countless unwritten rules that shape daily life in a new country. They rarely appear in guidebooks, yet they influence how people communicate, build relationships, and adapt to a new environment. For expatriates and international teams, these seemingly small moments can make the difference between feeling like an outsider and feeling at home.
At AnYan Business Services, this is exactly what we mean by cultural brokerage. Successful relocation is about much more than visas, housing, or logistics. It’s about helping people understand the context behind local behaviors, communication styles, and social norms. When people understand the culture behind the language, they integrate faster, communicate more confidently, and build stronger professional and personal relationships.
We’re delighted to share our first short educational video, created together with our partner Lotus Mandarin Center for our Shenyang Nexus WeChat channel. It uses one simple restaurant situation to demonstrate how language and culture go hand in hand.
Our work extends far beyond relocation support. We are actively engaged in the local community, developing practical cultural resources, building bridges between international and local communities, and helping companies and professionals successfully adapt to life and work in Shenyang.
We hope you enjoy the video, and we’d love to hear about your own experiences. Has a small cultural difference ever caught you by surprise?
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